Is sex overrated?

So yesterday a friend and I were discussing the importance of  a good healthy sex life.  I told him I heard a female friend once  say,"sex is overrated Olivia."  And I asked him what he thought about that?  I always find it so interesting how men and women see things so differently.  It reminds me of the childhood game we used to play called telephone.  Remember that game?  You would all sit in a circle and the initial message would be written down and the person who thought of it would whisper to the person next to them . The message would be shared around the circle to each person.  By the time the  nessage got to the final person and  said out loud, it would always be a different message from the original.  I think alot of it has to do with the way we hear things as men and women and the way we decipher , perceive, and relate to different things. 
Why would sex be any different? For so many women we tend to be emotional beings. meaning a great deal of us, not all, but quite a few of us have  caught  feelings based on sex  and as a result view sex with an individual from an emotional state.  Where as men, and though  I have never had testicales....connected to me... although last Friday night while walking through a restaurant I heard a man say to his girl... look... thats a dude.  I  thought. to myself..... I know yo bitch ass aint talking to me!!!
 (sorry.... Im trying to get away from cursing but sometimes BITCH ASS is just so fitting for some men.) But then I thought about it ,and most dragqueens are FIERCE, so I must have been looking good that night.  See.... his  bitch ass thought he was  really doing something and I took that away  from him.... WIT YO ,PUNKASS!!!  Any who....I digress....
 I told you I have ADD, where was I?....yeah .....so errr ruh.... Many men look at sex as a physical thing.  Thats why when some men cheat they really believe it  when they tell their significant other, baby....she didn't MEAN ANYTHING because it was just a physical act.  So.... we view sex differently.  But to say sex is overrrated in my opinion, that woman has not had the JOY,of being with a sexual partner who leaves you KNOWING....SEX IS IMPORTANT!. Are you serious?overated?  really?  so.... having a healthy connection with the person you are with is not important?  Its apart of THE  intimacy that you share with someone and if it is not enjoyable or WORTH IT, whats the point?   In order to truly enjoy the art of sex one must  be in touch with their own sexuality, you must be comfortable in your own skin.  Many women have body image issues.  If you dont love your body ,how can you expect for someone else to?  You also must know what you like ,without being too graphic and pornish...(not a word but you feel me) Its so important to KNOW what it takes to take you there.  So if you are not experiencing that, you can very well share your wants and needs wtih your partner.  Now.... Im not saying there arent other things just as important...
 for example....J O B.... NEGATIVE HIV TEST.....NOT LIVING WITH YO MOMMA....BEING DAM NEAR 40 AND COMPETING IN  A MADDEN TOURNAMENT, MISSING TEETH.....
 THE IMPORTANT ONES... IN THE FRONT... ummm....
did I say J O B.......Look...f you lack sexual compatibility, those thangs that were CUTE when you first started dating will be ON YO NERVES.  Dont believe me? Ask any married man, is it true if your wife is happy EVERYONE IS HAPPY.  But if she is not?.... then NO ONE IS.  Sex is overrated?..... IS IT?...
 what do you think.?  Well if you ask me..... IT IS NOT......IT IS.... WHAT YOU THINK IT IS based on the kind of sex you have had and/or having. 
Look....thats my 2 cents....ny fingers hurt...
 As always. in closing .....I ask you?
What good is money and success if YOUR hair is a HOT DAM  mess?
 GET LIFE BABY....this aint no dress rehersal.